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IMDB rating: 4.40 Plot: Darren Giles has lost his college scholarship, can’t work up the courage to ask out the girl of his dreams and doesn’t have the cash to stay in college another semester. Unless he can survive the teenage dominatrix, New York’s largest drug mogul, convince his parents he’s not gay, write a paper on Dante’s Inferno, escape three thugs chasing the wrong guy and sell fifty pills of ecstasy in time to make his tuition payment, he’ll never get the chance to date the girl of his dreams. |
Actors: Pucci Lou Taylor,Hensley John,Thomas Eddie Kaye,Pena Michael,Kapelos John,Rawlings Donnell,Jones John Marshall,Yuan Ron,Johnson Chris J.,Connor Curran,Comedy,
In short: parents know I'm having sex. What do i do?(pretty long but please read)?
ok..here’s the deal:
I’m going to be 18 in two weeks. I’ve been with the this one guy for a while now..almost a year in june. So…yeah…sex has definitely happened. I’m one of those girls who, if i don’t see anything wrong with it, I won’t do it. Which is what i did with him. I thought long and hard and found no reason not to go for it..I’m in love with him. We’re smart and use protection and we were both virgins before.
And sometimes I just don’t think enough and i do something i’ll regret later, which is what is happening now >.< my parents are very…protective. Over pretty much everything; especially me because I’m their youngest (I only have one older brother who never tells anyone but me anything about his life). The way I act pisses my mom off, the fact that i want piercings means I’m going against their wishes, I mean, we fight for some of the dumbest things on the planet. Which is why when i brought up going to new york for a show with my boyfriend on our one year, my dad flipped out and somehow paired the two ideas of me going to new york with my boyfriend to him and i having sex. And he asked me straight up like fifty times, "are you having sex?"
"Yup."
I know. stupid answer. But i see no reason why i can’t tell the truth. I’m an adult, and I’d rather them find out by me rather than finding out i lied to them (because THAT’S responsible *sarcasm*)…
long story short: My brother thinks I’m a dumbass
My mom thinks she failed me as a mother
And my father just doesn’t even want to think about it after i get my Birth Control pills next week (his idea, not my mother’s)
Both of my parents love my boyfriend.. And he actually wanted to do something together with my family and his.
I don’t want this to affect the way my parents think about him and i really, really want everything to be handled like an adult.
How do i even begin to make things better again?
oh..yeah, that too >.< My parents are pretty religious but i’m never around so i don’t really go to church or anything which is why i didn’t mention it before
Assure your parents that you will not get pregnant,and that both are not having sex with anyone else. They may be worried about unwanted pregnancy or S.T.D.or AIDS. They will come around, they don’t have any other choice, show them respect and that you are behaving as a responsible adult. I think you did the right thing by being honest, they probably thought you were sexually involved after this long a relationship. Be safe and Be Happy
hall-house | May 03, 2009
Okay first of all, it’s your god damn body, so YOU decide whether you take dangerous pills or not. Not your dad, certainly not a MAN who has no say in anything a woman does with her body, as he does not know the first thing about it.
Yes you’re old enough and blahblah, but the fact is that we don’t like to think of our parents being sexual and parents don’t like to think of their kids as being sexually active, even though it should have been pretty obvious. They WILL be shocked.
They will get over it. It will just take a little bit of time. I’m pretty sure that sex is not the reason they are bothered about you going away, they probably just used that as an excuse. It’s good that it’s out in the open but there is really no reason for them to have any knowledge of your sex life, so just ignore anything they say.
Like I said they will get over it so don’t think it will be like this forever. The only issue would be if they were religious but i’m sure you would have mentioned if that was why they were mad.
… | May 04, 2009